It does helping talking to people about this kind of sh*t.
Which I guess is why it happened on a dy when we were invited to dinner with Gilly and Mark.
Dont tknow them all that well, but we had a great evening out, and of course an opportunity to get some ideas about how to deal with the situation.
I will be writng a letter back (as per the CABs advice) but it needs to be assertive, and yet not antagonising. I have a tendency to be too nice. Works, most of the time, but this seems to be one of the most difficult things we've had to face for ages.
Managed to put it to the background today though, and so having a better day than yesterday which all ended up being rather silly and embarassing.

For a start, D picked up another wad of cash this morning so we have another £400 to put towards the Wall Funds.

Then on the forum, the announcement from Mr Malins that John and Louis will be selling a limited edition live album at the gigs. Called "Live from a Room as Big as a City"" (WTF???) it is a collection of the best moments from the Crash and Burn tour.
Not one, but two.
A second album called "The Hidden Man" will also be available on the night, containing interviews, photographs and three exclusive new songs from the "Impossible" sessions.
Apparently these three songs will not feature in the live set, but others from the forthcoming album will be introduced.
This sounds a lot like the kind of package Numan had on sale in Portsmouth last month.
Sounds very exciting. Hopefully the tickets for Brighton should arrive in the next couple of days.